A 2019 NAHB report, based on a November 2018 survey of 153 single-family builders, reported an average 343 square feet for a distinct living room when present. The report says 37.3% of the surveyed homes had a separate living room.
It reported 398 square feet for a distinct family room when present (55.6% of homes). The two room names refer to different spaces in the survey. These are builder-reported averages for new homes in that sample, not a required or current nationwide standard.